ok im almost at lvl 20 now YEAAAA ME but i have 6 of the balls so whats can i wish for is there a list i can see that we have in english

at 20 lvl is one kind of wish. U will receive following items:
10 000 zeni
db scouter
rare set equip (chest,pants, boots).

so should i just save them then

you cant lol those a special early dbs that only give you those items

SUPER LAME arrrgh well i got the 3 star so when can i look for dragon balls only on the weekends

The level 1-20 dragon balls are attained from quests around the starting area, if you have had one drop for you from a mob thats a genuine dragonball, if your looking to find your 7th rumage around for any quests, if in your previous reply you mean your missing the 3 star dragonball, it will be quite early on in the starting area that you missed a quest.

yeah i actually had a real one drop

In the case gz, yeah you can only get dragon balls at the weekend, when you hand in your 1-20 dragonballs you get a scouter chip which allows you to hunt for genuine dragon balls.